I’m a woman who understands desire, its power, its subtleties, and the art of navigating it with both grace and intensity. I know what I want, and I’m drawn to a partner who’s equally self-aware, someone who moves through life with quiet confidence and intention.
I seek something lasting, an authentic connection built on mutual respect, trust, and exploration. I appreciate depth over drama, clarity over games, and the kind of chemistry that doesn’t fade with time.
Beneath the surface, there’s a layered dynamic I enjoy: one that blends strength with surrender, control with vulnerability. I’m not here for fleeting moments, I’m here to create something real, enduring, and undeniably ours.
If you’re someone who leads with purpose and feels most alive in the space where power meets passion, you might find what you’re looking for right here.
I’m an independent and caring woman who enjoys traveling, learning new things, and helping people feel their best. I’m divorced with no kids and I run my own skincare business in ***. I value honesty, kindness and meaningful connections, and I’m hoping to meet someone who shares the same values
I am looking for someone who is loving, caring, honest, faithful, respectful and also want to have a serious long term relationship, a decent Man, a God ***ing man, someone who wants to spend the rest of a life with me If you find my profile intriguing and it resonate with you
I am 40 years old I love to be dominated in and out of the bedroom. I want to make my master proud and am willing to do that.
I am 5 foot. blue eyes I dye my hair. I have 6 tattoos and looking to get more. I am not skinny
Unfortunately I have NOT found my DOM yet.
single working mom! Busy but like to have adult life and conversations away from every day life sometimes 🙃
Praise kink. 💕
I won't call you Sir in our first interaction 🥱
. not looking for fwb or one nights
I am looking for someone who is my biggest supporter in everything, emotionally available and who adores me endlessly and exclusively from the jump. Anything else is a waste of my time.
Looking for casual connections with single men only. I am not attracted to bigger guys and I like an age range of 26 to 40. Kinks will be discovered in conversation. prefer you to be close to me.
Looking for a teacher , prefer a woman with a lot of experience and open mind to guide me and show me my potential in such a kinky world!! I wanna try it all (at least once) !!
I’d also like someone I can learn With So experience not really necessary but a love for toys is always a plus!!!
Obessed with my tits, in public and in private , love to show them and have them played with! I’m white bi sexual female and I’m open minded and love to try new things!!! new to being this out there but a friend suggested I try it so here I am!
My first language is sarcasm and I'm very honest; if you don't want truth don't talk to me. 🙃
I am very bi.
I don't like to put spicy pictures online since idiots like to steal them. I keep my hair very short and some version of purple, have hazel eyes and very fair skin. I am 5'9", 255 lb, 36G.
If you have questions ask.
I like to hang out with friends, eat good food (nothing spicy!), music and concerts, I love tribal style belly dance. I crochet, listen to audiobooks, and do crafty things. I like action, fantasy, and sci-fi movies/shows; I like some comedy but I'm picky. I am not a fan of horror and if you try the jump scare shit... pray I don't catch you.
I'm a 36 year old, 5'10" brunette with brown eyes and an athletic build. I'm looking for a Dom. I need him to be bigger and stronger than me...which will be hard to find. I'm a very busy woman. I control every aspect of my life and am very successful. I need to find my dom to help me give up my power and control for a release on a casual basis. Come find me 😽
1,000% NOT LOOKING FOR MEN. i have a man, i dont want you. im a brat looking to eat some 🐱, teach me how to make you cum in my face? I am ENM with a partner, he will more than likely be involved. IF YOU COME INTO MY INBOX DISRESPECTFUL, FULLY EXPECT MY DOM TO BE THE ONE RESPONDING
Not looking for a diamond ring. Just someone to take me out, call me pretty, feed me tacos, and give good orgasms. Don't have alot of free time, so don't waste it.
Feel free to message, I don't get alerts but I do check my inbox
Married for 7 years but looking for a kinky bestie that we (or i) can have fun with in and out of the bedroom.... someone to just join us and explore 😜
i’m kind of new to the lifestyle or at least being open about it. I can be a little shy at first but once I’m comfortable and anything goes, I love to try new things. I’m very open minded love playing with ladies probably more than men but older man expect me to
I am learning that I want to be part of a pack. I think im a delta and not alpha. Weird I didn't think I wanted be in a poly situation. Life changes and so do my desires.
Tested and negative for everything as of 11/6/25
Updated 10/12/25
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
94% Voyeur
91% Exhibitionist
79% Rigger
78% Rope bunny
77% Degrader
74% Sadist
72% Non-monogamist
71% Switch
70% Dominant
70% Owner
70% Submissive
69% Primal (Prey)
69% Brat tamer
60% Experimentalist
58% Master/Mistress
57% Masochist
57% Brat
45% Primal (Hunter)
41% Pet
36% Slave
34% Vanilla
16% Degradee
9% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Little
I enjoy writing, sewing, baking, cooking, crocheting, skating, games, TV, and makeup. I love One Piece and would love friends who do too. I’m not sure what I’m looking for yet—mainly hookups, but open to talking about more. I’ve never been with anyone before and this is my first dating/hookup app, but I’m open to exploring. I think I’m a bottom and I am looking for my first girl on girl sexual experience.
In desperate search for my Daddy. Been looking for him for a long time. is it possible to miss someone you’ve never met?
not looking for hook ups or anything casual. I’m not a casual person. I love intensely and crave attention and love. When I love someone I want to be with them all the time, talk to them all the time, snuggle and love on them all the time. I have so much love to give and need a daddy to be in charge and always let me know where I stand with them. I need someone who can talk about their emotions and handle mine also.
I'm on a journey of self discovery. A year and a half ago I found myself suddenly single after 14 years - this is just an intro, so I won't dive into the whole backstory here.
I was aware of the lifestyle and had an inkling of where I fall on the spectrum, but I have come to learn a lot about myself and finding my role in the BDSM world has helped me more than anything to figure out who I am and what makes me the way I am.
I am a "strong independent woman" by necessity, but crave an experienced true, good Dom or Master who is emotionally mature and stable enough to be a safe place, a mentor, a friend and a leader. Someone who accepts and respects the responsibility of having a submissive who needs and wants structure and guidance without being rushed.
**I AM NOT LOOKING FOR JUST SEX PARTNER**
***I am a plus sized woman, if you don't like that, don't message me***
_READ MY ENTIRE PROFILE BEFORE YOU BOTHER CONTACTING ME!__
I am seeking a male or female slave/sub in the Springfield area.
I would prefer someone between the ages of 21 and 60 to play IN PERSON.
I am NOT seeking any online relationships. It's either in person, or not at all.
I want someone who will be into public play (in a safe environment), flogging, spanking, bondage, ***, CBT, orgasm denial, chasity, CD-ing, just to name a few.
I am not into ***s and the like, I will not do ***s, no ***, no illegal ***.
__If you can't handle that then don't even bother messaging me. If there is something in this profile you don't like, then don't bother messaging me either.__
When you contact me, you must include in your FIRST message to me:
What you are applying for
What your limits are if any
What your soft limits are
A picture of yourself
Any experience you have had
An idea of what you are seeking
I'm really laid back kinda person. I work hard in life and I am a mom of 3 boys. I want to be a pleasure toy for the right one... I am a great cook and love to do outdoors stuff n I am very family oriented! I love to go hang out bowling pool have a drink darts music dancing... I am just a fun put my boots on kinda girl
I’m a woman who understands desire, its power, its subtleties, and the art of navigating it with both grace and intensity. I know what I want, and I’m drawn to a partner who’s equally self-aware, someone who moves through life with quiet confidence and intention.
I seek something lasting, an authentic connection built on mutual respect, trust, and exploration. I appreciate depth over drama, clarity over games, and the kind of chemistry that doesn’t fade with time.
Beneath the surface, there’s a layered dynamic I enjoy: one that blends strength with surrender, control with vulnerability. I’m not here for fleeting moments, I’m here to create something real, enduring, and undeniably ours.
If you’re someone who leads with purpose and feels most alive in the space where power meets passion, you might find what you’re looking for right here.
I am looking for someone who is loving, caring, honest, faithful, respectful and also want to have a serious long term relationship, a decent Man, a God ***ing man, someone who wants to spend the rest of a life with me If you find my profile intriguing and it resonate with you
I’m an independent and caring woman who enjoys traveling, learning new things, and helping people feel their best. I’m divorced with no kids and I run my own skincare business in ***. I value honesty, kindness and meaningful connections, and I’m hoping to meet someone who shares the same values
I am 40 years old I love to be dominated in and out of the bedroom. I want to make my master proud and am willing to do that.
I am 5 foot. blue eyes I dye my hair. I have 6 tattoos and looking to get more. I am not skinny
Unfortunately I have NOT found my DOM yet.
My first language is sarcasm and I'm very honest; if you don't want truth don't talk to me. 🙃
I am very bi.
I don't like to put spicy pictures online since idiots like to steal them. I keep my hair very short and some version of purple, have hazel eyes and very fair skin. I am 5'9", 255 lb, 36G.
If you have questions ask.
I like to hang out with friends, eat good food (nothing spicy!), music and concerts, I love tribal style belly dance. I crochet, listen to audiobooks, and do crafty things. I like action, fantasy, and sci-fi movies/shows; I like some comedy but I'm picky. I am not a fan of horror and if you try the jump scare shit... pray I don't catch you.
Hello ladies. I am looking for a woman who is interested in joining me and my fiance in the bedroom. Would more than likely be a one time thing. I am 27 and he is 29. HMU
I enjoy being 💯 submissive. I also love having a gentle dom who is also firm. I don’t like *** but I like light spankings, light choking so I remember who is in charge, and consensually ***d throat fucking.
I enjoy writing, sewing, baking, cooking, crocheting, skating, games, TV, and makeup. I love One Piece and would love friends who do too. I’m not sure what I’m looking for yet—mainly hookups, but open to talking about more. I’ve never been with anyone before and this is my first dating/hookup app, but I’m open to exploring. I think I’m a bottom and I am looking for my first girl on girl sexual experience.
I'm a 36 year old, 5'10" brunette with brown eyes and an athletic build. I'm looking for a Dom. I need him to be bigger and stronger than me...which will be hard to find. I'm a very busy woman. I control every aspect of my life and am very successful. I need to find my dom to help me give up my power and control for a release on a casual basis. Come find me 😽
I am looking for someone who is my biggest supporter in everything, emotionally available and who adores me endlessly and exclusively from the jump. Anything else is a waste of my time.
Married for 7 years but looking for a kinky bestie that we (or i) can have fun with in and out of the bedroom.... someone to just join us and explore 😜
Not looking for a diamond ring. Just someone to take me out, call me pretty, feed me tacos, and give good orgasms. Don't have alot of free time, so don't waste it.
Feel free to message, I don't get alerts but I do check my inbox
I'm on a journey of self discovery. A year and a half ago I found myself suddenly single after 14 years - this is just an intro, so I won't dive into the whole backstory here.
I was aware of the lifestyle and had an inkling of where I fall on the spectrum, but I have come to learn a lot about myself and finding my role in the BDSM world has helped me more than anything to figure out who I am and what makes me the way I am.
I am a "strong independent woman" by necessity, but crave an experienced true, good Dom or Master who is emotionally mature and stable enough to be a safe place, a mentor, a friend and a leader. Someone who accepts and respects the responsibility of having a submissive who needs and wants structure and guidance without being rushed.
1,000% NOT LOOKING FOR MEN. i have a man, i dont want you. im a brat looking to eat some 🐱, teach me how to make you cum in my face? I am ENM with a partner, he will more than likely be involved. IF YOU COME INTO MY INBOX DISRESPECTFUL, FULLY EXPECT MY DOM TO BE THE ONE RESPONDING
i’m kind of new to the lifestyle or at least being open about it. I can be a little shy at first but once I’m comfortable and anything goes, I love to try new things. I’m very open minded love playing with ladies probably more than men but older man expect me to
I'm a naturally submissive switch with a little bit of age play. I like to be a bratty little princess who has to get punished every now and then ☺️ I also want to be cuddled by my Daddy and spoiled with kisses and presents and fun outings.
Only interested in local
chill/sassy bitch.
must host.
she's not going 2 lick itself 😸
show me what that mouth can do & I turn into a juicy goddess.
that's all folks 😉.
(I do smoke weed & cigarettes)
Kik @ goddessjuicybear
I'm really laid back kinda person. I work hard in life and I am a mom of 3 boys. I want to be a pleasure toy for the right one... I am a great cook and love to do outdoors stuff n I am very family oriented! I love to go hang out bowling pool have a drink darts music dancing... I am just a fun put my boots on kinda girl
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